Love ...

It happen to be a coincidence that I read my friend's post in the facebook. I feel that I would be sorry if I did not share it out or write in down in my own blog. I really love the quote by Chiranai ka. Here's how it goes.

"Love is the strength that gives u life. When u receive Love u lose fear and you can give the best in you. The practical form of Love is respect. Respect means acceptance of the fact that we are all different and unique and at the same time, we all have something important and valuable to share. Open your heart and be generous, free yourself from that sorrow, forgive and forget and you will live every moment in peace..."

It is simple but direct. It strikes me and it is the most common practical guidance which we keep on learning from people. It might be hard to follow and take actions. But once you have started to practice it, you will soon find yourself changed in various ways, and live a happy life. Tolerant is important to give way to others. We might be good at times, but there are also times where we are inneed of people, including those you hate the most. Forgiveness leads you to a broader way.

The quotes makes me wonder and wonder. How strong is a LOVE is? What happen if sometimes we have difference perceptions? Will we quarrel? Will we fight? Yeah.. We quarrel most of the days. Hahha.. So..? Does it mean anything? For sure it will not be happy fighting with your loved one. What shall we do? What is the correct thing to do? Saying Apology!

Communication between you and your loved one is important. Why do most of the time we have misunderstanding and quarrel? It shows that we do not have enough of open communications shared out among our loved one. Telling the truth save a thousand explanations. It makes our relationship stronger by telling the truth and give great understanding on how are we going to provide good support to them.

Apology is important. Love is to listen and understand among each other. You compromise and willing to give out infinite supports to your partner, giving strength and advice to show your tremendous love, Even in the most hardest and toughest time. Apearance is only for those puppy love or love at 1st sight. While the most important is to listen and feel the inner heart. Feel it and you will find your true love. Hands in Hands together we walk along the long life path. Never be fear to say SORRY and I LOVE YOU. Remember to say it heartedly in slow, firm voice. I am sure it will melt out thousand hearts.

Have you apologized to your loved one and tell them how much you have Loved them?
Say it before it is too late. Don't let the time and faded good memories get over you. Though for your enemy, say it also that you had felt sorry on what you have done. It doesn't meant to be you two must get together after that, but it makes you feel better rather than keeping in your heart.

Everyone of us have been working days and nights, busy about works, busy about personal things, busy about all the MUST DO things in daily life. Frustration is something which we will get by the most awkward and awful end of the day. This will mostly be the firelines to lit up the explosions among the couples. Well, here's a little suggestion which may help to cool down the temperature a bit. Again, communication is very important. Spend a little time with your loved one, perhaps before the dinner, after the dinner, or even before bed time, talk out how do you feel in your whole damn working day. Good one, Bad one... Let them talk till he has nothing to talk while you must listen, Then, tell your stories. Of course, you can give some advices, but remember, advices must only come in when they have finished grumbling. I used grumbling because most of the time, it will be those badly treated experiences, good one? of ocurse we laugh together. Hahah. The result is to give a chance to your loved one on what you are doing, how you feel, let them understand you better and this actually lead to great improvements in gaining long term relationship. Sharing is the most important in the relationship.

Well, I am sure you have read quite a lengthy grandmother sneezes in a little girl very own diary blog. Oh Well, Again, let me know your thoughts... we shall learn together in trusting and loving those you loved.

Don't pin point me too much. I am just a little girl who has not be in loved...., but have seen love as a 3rd party. What can you say? I might be absolutely wrong... Haha